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Will
 

Things will go easier in those places where you find you do have resilience and "will"....

I'm going to leave it at "will" right now, instead of free will...

I'll probably address that later...it's a chapter, eh.<G>

Here's the context:

There is an axiom in Blank Slate that represents the idea that EVERYONE CAN, if...

...they get the right _______________, and if they can't,

it's really not their fault; we just didn't get the ______________ right.

Another way BS looks at this is we are all equal,

and as blank slates to be written upon by our "environments"

...if we are not doing whatever it is...

Then it's not because we can't,

it's because we don't have the right ___________________.

That a basic set of tenets of the system.

In FLOS, I like to think that everybody can't,

and no amount of __________________ can change that proposition.

But like BS, in FLOS, everyone can have all they want...so there is an idea of MORE?

More is really tricky, but I wanted to posit this early,

so we can come back to it in another FLOS 101 Topic.

Back to will.

It's simple in FLOS.

EVEN if everybody CAN, (I'll give BS the benefit of the doubt!)  ...few will.

Now, will is a multi-faceted idea.

For now, let's stay simple:

I believe and FLOS is based on the idea, that people are inherently predisposed

to select and use particular parts of their ability.  It seems babies are born with a

full cabinet in most cases and what remains is what gets used, the rest, probably

through evolutionary, or creative efficiency, falls away to reveal the DAVID!

[It is often said that when asked how he created such a sculpture, he replied that he

merely removed all the material that was blocking our view of what was there.]

That David is in control, although mostly unconsciously...of selection and use of the ways.

It's pretty easy to depict this through Damasio's Ideas on "Feeling of What Happens!"

http://www.flawlessliving.info/damasio/index.html

 The Key Assumption?

Just because we can...we usually won't...UNLESS, it's aligned with what makes us happy.

It doesn't mean we should learn, or develop skill in areas that are not weaknesses.  It does mean that when we do...it's likely we won't gain mastery with them, or use them, just because we have them!

Helpful Hint: This set of FLOS ideas can be quite difficult to see around...and in order to shift how we think about everything else; we need to come to a base of acceptance. We must rely on enough evidence and experience, ideas in the domain of what you know, that are a lot different from the domain of what you do.  So, there is a huge knowing-doing gap. Almost all of us KNOW what to do in a lot of cases, where we are not doing it.  Ask yourself, why is that?
Action Step: Write down all the important "pivotal" things that you know, and can do and won't or don't do.  Why EXPOSE these knowing-doing gaps?  It is to help you emphasize that we are practicing a flawed path following along with BS who conditions us to doing the needful (as my Indian Friends often say<G>), or what has to be done to "fix" or "solve" or "deal" with all those gaps.

Advice:

1. Give up on closing all the gaps through changing yourself!

2. Sometimes the gaps need to stay open to produce the tension required.


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