"There are no such things as
limitations, there are only mis-aligned situations in which we
overplay our strengths...or UNDERPLAY them..."
Another counter-intuitive idea,
when intuitive is sold to us hook, line and sinker as the
route to another BS program, or experience.
Let me approach it this way.
Inside limitations is the
word limit.
I assume that most people think
(albeit few consciously) that when you have gone past your
limits, you experience what is called a limit-ation.
In the defining moment of you
realizing this, you will agree that FLOW is about limits, yet
has none!
Of course, when you exceed your
limits, no wonder you can be shown how you are weak, limited
and unfit, broken, or damaged goods.
Because we have become conditions
by No-Limits, we now, by default have limitations.
YET, I say that in FLOW there is no
limitation, only those which arise in an subject/object
assessment of something-->that which has exceeded particular
boundaries, or limits.
SO, yes, we can use the term well
and it can be EES in this notion of perspective, but for us
individually, we HAVE NO LIMITATIONS, because in FLOW, we
understand our limits.
Another BS scaffolded theory is
limitations, weaknesses, and deficits that have to be
remedied, fixed, measured as gaps to close, rather than as in
FLOW, the gap remaining in tension to let us know where limits
are, and the fish-bowl of choice wil best serve us now,
near and far.
Limitations are there to provide
information about when our strengths, gifts as it emerges as
Happiness AND Success are in fact in the right tension.
Once a limit is discovered, we
merely reform through our strengths...why not.
Our EVERYTHING is limited,
including perspective, capability, ego, KSEs, values, and
whatever else you want to lump as human. We ARE that way for a
reason and it's not necessary to become anything you want-->or
what others can make you want.
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